04 - The Guest List

Request access

to the network.

Membership is by application. We review for alignment, safety, and trust before access.

01Access to approved community-led gathering listings.
02The Vault — private member updates, resources, and trusted listings.
03Full access to The Library, journal archive & all toolkits.
04A network that keeps confidence and moves with care.

Our Pillars

Privacy first. No screenshots, no public tagging, no broadcasting. What happens in the room stays in the room.

Curated by intent. We maintain a private network, small by choice and closed by default.

Referral-weighted. Membership is primarily extended via referral. A member vouching for you carries real weight in our review.

Small by design. We are not optimising for scale. We are optimising for rooms that feel right.

Tell us about you.

The name you would like us to use.

The display name on your WhatsApp profile.

Include the country code, for example +60 12 345 6789.

Where we send your invitation if you are approved.

The name or WhatsApp username of a current member.

We store only what is on this form. We never ask for or keep photographs or identity documents. Verification is by phone call only.

Your request is in
the archives.

We've received your application and will read it carefully - over coffee, without rushing. This sanctuary is maintained with intention, not scale. You'll hear from us when the timing feels right.

Support the Network

Support the network.

This space is independently maintained. No corporate backing, no investors - a small team keeping the lights on with care. If this network means something to you, a coffee helps keep it quiet, safer, and independent.

Membership FAQs

HERspace is a small, private member network built around trust before access. We do not describe our membership publicly - that is deliberate. If someone you trust has pointed you here, they can tell you the rest.

We aim to review applications within 7-14 days. Every submission is read personally by the founder - not filtered by an algorithm. If you were referred by a member, please include their name; it helps us move faster and gives your application meaningful context.

Applying is free. Some trusted host gatherings may be paid, and any fee should be clear before you RSVP.

You can still apply - just leave the referral field blank. Cold applications are considered, though referrals carry significant weight. If you found us organically and feel you belong here, tell us that story. A genuine application goes a long way.

We'll let you know honestly. Declining isn't a judgment of you - it's about maintaining the specific energy of our current community. You're welcome to reapply in a future season, and we'd encourage you to do so with a referral if possible.

Completely. We do not share applicant or member data with anyone. This site does not appear in search engines. Your application is reviewed only by the HS team and is handled with discretion. Discretion is foundational to how HERspace operates.

Simply share this page with someone you'd genuinely vouch for and ask them to include your name in the "Who sent you?" field. Your referral carries real weight - and also your reputation. We trust you to send people who share our values.

Yes. Email hello@herspace.hub at any time and we'll handle it quietly, no questions asked. We'd love to understand why if you're open to sharing - but there's no obligation and no friction.